Kevin & katie

Kevin and katie have lived in a Full Time Total Power Exchange for the last 13 years, and have survived raising teenagers, full time employment, a total-loss house fire, correcting huge debt, home renovations, and Alberta winters. While they identify as Master/slave, they enact the relationship using an Executive model. They are the recipients of the 2016 Great Lakes Power Exchange title.

As a retired psychologist, Kevin guides their focus on helping people create, maintain and optimize their relationships and personal growth. Their presentations are a rollicking mix of humor and brutal honesty – like any good scene, you might not be sure whether it feels good, or you should cry.

Kevin has clinical experience watching what makes relationships succeed or fail. Through moderating Power Exchange discussion groups, Kevin and katie have heard the real struggles faced by real couples. Their mission is to help people create, maintain and optimize their relationships. They hope to encourage individuals and relationships to grow through proper focus on goals and priorities.

Actual workshop attendees say: “Your workshops were a breath of fresh air and the first meaningful TPE workshops to offer a practical strategic framework as well as some tactical behaviors to underpin it. They were also entertaining without being content-free.” and “Their presentations are so good, I skipped Bow Chicka Wow Wow for one.”

Kevin and katie present internationally, including Lupercalia, Winter Wickedness, Spanksgiving, and Leather Leadership Conference. They delivered the Keynote for Power Exchange Summit IV. They like orgasms and boardgames


Executive Power Exchange

We discuss how and why we came to this cooperative model of Power Exchange. Using a business model of CEO and COO, we created a very functional and adaptable style of Power Exchange that has lasted over 15 years. We will share how to make maximum use of brilliant, powerful followers and how to be a Leader in the company which is your relationship.

“No Fair!” – Stinkin’ Thinkin’ in Power Exchange

We all invest a lot of energy into things we cannot change.  As you start, build, and maintain your power exchange relationship it is possible to fall into patterns of thinking and reacting that undermine the dynamic.  We cling to irrational and destructive beliefs.  This class discusses how to alter your thoughts to get the results you want.  What do you think and do when there is a conflict of opinion in your relationship?  As a Leader, what internal messages do you allow to drive you?  As a Follower, what thoughts play inside your head that interfere in your role?  You can alter your perspective and strengthen your dynamic.

Proactive Submission: Inspiring the new or stagnant Power Exchange relationship

It is easy for a Dominant to get his/her needs met. How does a submissive get her/his needs met without being accused of Topping from the Bottom or worse? This workshop helps give submission new direction and focus.